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Helping a Friend Through a Miscarriage

by Patty Hone

When you have a friend that has had a miscarriage there is a lot you can do to help her. Many times we are afraid to say anything because we don’t want to say the wrong thing but not saying anything at all can be just as bad. So what should you say and what shouldn’t you say. I have had three miscarriages myself and have heard a lot of things that were just not the right things to say. I have put together a list of things you can say and things you probably shouldn’t. Please be gentle with your friends that are coping with miscarriage. They need your support.  Things you should say.

  • Do call her and tell her you are sorry for her loss.
  • Do send her a card or flowers to show you care
  • Do let her talk as much as she needs to or wants to.
  • Do give her a hug to let her know you care.
  • Do offer to help with housework, babysitting or other things that she may not feel up to doing.
  • Do acknowledge her baby.
  • It is okay to say I don’t know what to say or I don’t know how to help. Do call and check up on her. The pain does not go away in a couple days.
  • Give her extra attention. She needs to feel like other people care about what she is going through.
  • Do ask if she wants to talk about it.

Things you should not say.

  • It was probably for the best.
  • At least it happened early in the pregnancy before you really got attached.
  • It was God’s will
  • I understand how you feel. Even if you have had more than one miscarriage, you may not know how she is feeling.
  • It was only one miscarriage.
  • I know a friend that had such and such miscarriages and she has children now.
  • It was nature’s way of getting rid of defective chromosomes.
  • At least you have one child
  • I don’t understand why you are so upset.
  • Maybe you should consider adoption, not having children.
  • Don’t not talk about it. Don’t avoid her.
  • Don’t try to cheer her up. She probably doesn’t want to be cheered up and by doing this you are not acknowledging her pain.

It may be difficult for her to be around children or pregnant women. Be understanding and sympathetic. But don’t avoid being around her if you are pregnant or have children.

Do share your experience but this is not the time to go on about how bad things were for you. She needs your support.

If she does get pregnant again, don’t dismiss her anxiety by saying things like lots of women have spotting, cramping, etc. Be optimistic but acknowledge her fears.

About The Author

Patty Hone is a wife and mommy to three kids. She is also the owner of Justmommies.com. Justmommies is an online community for mommies to make friends and find support. Please visit Justmommies at http://www.justmommies.com
email@justmommies.com




Rates May Be Rising. Mortgage And Refinancing Preparation Made Simple For You

by Jeffrey Broobin

Buying a home is probably the single largest investment most people make in a lifetime. By preparing yourself and your credit before a home purchase or refinance, you can ensure a smooth finance process and can potentially save thousands on your loan. Improve your financial profile now so you can take advantage of the low interest rates before they disappear.

Start by checking your credit To get the best possible mortgage rate, make sure your credit history is healthy and accurate. Aim to raise your credit score above 650 in order to qualify for most prime loans. If your credit score is not quite 650, focus your efforts on paying bills on time, reducing your debt balances, avoiding new inquiries and clearing negative inac Rates May Be Rising. Mortgage And Refinancing Preparation Made Simple For You Recipe

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Toy Dog Breeds

by Stephanie Hetu

Toy dog breeds include greyhounds, terriers, pinschers, pugs, chihuahuas, pekingese, spaniels--the official list of the AKC is quite extensive. Regardless of breed, toy dogs are desired for their cuteness and cuddle-ability. Many retain the characteristics of a puppy for their entire lives. This may be one of the big attractions that toy dog breeds hold over larger breed dogs.

Diminutive size, however, does not mean that toy dog breeds are less hardy. Once safely past puppyhood, their energy levels and enthusiasm rival any breed of dog. Some are excellent watch dogs, but they won?t be able to follow through preventing entry of an intruder. The hue and cry of toy dog breeds can be enough to make your hair stand on end!

There are several advan Toy Dog Breeds Recipe

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How to Feed and Care for Orphaned Kittens

by LeAnn R. Ralph

Over the last 15 years, I have raised nine orphaned kittens. Four of them were two weeks old when their mother was killed; three others were only hours old when their mother died; two more kittens fell out of the nest in our barn when they were only a day old.

Raising motherless kittens is not a difficult process, but it does require patience, time and plenty of TLC.

Here are some tips to help you raise your orphaned kittens:

1. Make a nest.

Normally, a mother cat spends many hours a day in the nest with her kittens, which helps her babies stay warm. Keeping the kittens warm is important because if they're not warm enough, they won't want to eat, and in fact, all of their bodily functions will slow down.

To keep your orphaned kitt How to Feed and Care for Orphaned Kittens Recipe

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5 Ways to Deal With ADHD

by Glenn Murray

With an increasing number of our youths suffering ADHD, stress syndromes, unemployment, depression, drug use, crime and higher rates of youth suicide than ever before, today’s parents and teachers are finding their roles more and more difficult.

According to renowned family relationships specialist, Marguerite Clancy, there are no overnight solutions for issues such as ADHD, but there are a few quick things struggling parents can do now to start dealing with it:

1) Get into a routine and stick to it (try to include fun times and laughter)

2) Set up a punching bag or get your child playing a sport

3) Be consistent with discipline and offer rewards where appropriate

4) Use positive language, keep directions short, maintain calm

5 5 Ways to Deal With ADHD Recipe

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